Transvestism involves recurrent, intense sexual arousal from cross-dressing. Transvestic disorder is transvestism that causes significant distress or substantially interferes with daily functioning.
Transvestism is a form of fetishism (the clothing is the fetish), which is a type of paraphilia. In transvestism (cross-dressing), men prefer to wear women’s clothing, or, far less commonly, women prefer to wear men's clothing. However, they do not wish to change their sex, as transsexuals do. Also, they do not have an inner sense of belonging to the opposite sex as people with gender dysphoria do. However, men who cross-dress may have feelings of gender dysphoria when they are under stress or experience a loss.
The term cross-dressers is usually used to refer to people with transvestism. Transvestite is a less acceptable term.
Heterosexual males who dress in women’s clothing typically begin such behavior in late childhood. This behavior is associated, at least initially, with intense sexual arousal.
Cross-dressers may cross-dress for reasons other than sexual stimulation—for example, to reduce anxiety, to relax, or, in the case of male cross-dressers, to experiment with the feminine side of their otherwise male personalities.
Later in life (sometimes in their 50s or 60s), some men who were cross-dressers only in their teens and twenties develop gender dysphoria. They may seek to change their body through hormones and genital (sex-reassignment) surgery.
When a partner is cooperative, cross-dressing may not hurt a couple’s sexual relationship. In such cases, cross-dressing men may engage in sexual activity in partial or full feminine attire.
When a partner is not cooperative, cross-dressers may feel anxious, depressed, and guilty and ashamed about their desire to cross-dress. In response to these feelings, these men often purge their wardrobe of female clothing.
Transvestism is considered a disorder and thus requires treatment only if it causes distress, interferes with functioning, or involves daredevil behavior likely to lead to injury, loss of a job, or imprisonment. Most cross-dressers do not have transvestic disorder.
Only a few people with transvestism seek medical care. Those who do may be motivated by an unhappy spouse or by worry about how the cross-dressing is affecting their social life and work. Or they may be referred by courts for treatment. Some seek medical care for other problems, such as substance abuse or depression.
Social and support groups for men who cross-dress are often very helpful.
Psychotherapy, when needed, is focused on helping people accept themselves and control behaviors that could cause problems.
No drugs are reliably effective.